Dating a married older man
If you have convinced yourself that his family would never come to know about it, think again.If they do, you would have to deal with the guilt of inflicting emotional pain on his spouse and kids, besides hurting yourself.I have nothing against guys my age; I have tried dating them, but I have constantly come across the following:- They’re not ambitious enough, or they don't have a go-getter attitude.- They’re not financially stable.- They still want to date around.- They have had baby mama or ex-wife drama.- They don’t have their sh*t together.
He may be older, but he’s learned a lesson or two about making money, saving money and balancing his checkbook. He’s been through multiple ups and downs in relationships, and his feelings are in check. With endless kisses, hugs and soft lit candles, he goes the distance to make sure you are happy and satisfied.I got this comment many times with my last relationship and felt even more confident hearing it.This is probably the most challenging thing to overcome when dating an older guy. Although you can’t change a man (or even a woman for that matter), the key is to bend for one another so both of your needs are fulfilled.When I would go away on trips and had my guy take care of my apartment, I always came home to flowers on the table, chocolate or homemade gifts. Besides feeling good together in public, you look great together, too.Even though there have been those people who have judged, you’ll be surprised that there are more people on your side than you think.